These
days, it seems as though almost everybody is using social networking
sites. I know I use them to promote this blog, as well as
maintaining contact with some of my various friends.
One
of the more popular social networking sites out there is Facebook.
The site began in February 2004, and over the next eight years would
grow to have a total of over 900 MILLION active users.
But
in reality, it's more along the lines of only 500 million, as many
people have two or more screennames for Facebook games and internet
trolling (not that I condone either of these).
I've
had a Facebook account since October 2007, and like so many others,
trying to find your place in an online social community can be a bit
challenging at first. I've likely made some mistakes along the way
in what I post, and certainly have gotten caught up in a few
drama-filled confrontations along the way, but just like the
workplace or on the real life social scene, that is to be expected no
matter where you go.
Nowadays,
I mostly use my Facebook page as a promotional tool for my writing
projects. Occasionally I might post a link to a funny picture that
cracks me up (usually George Takei of Star Trek is guilty of
providing me with at least one laugh per day), but I keep that to a
minimum.
Yet,
one thing I've noticed in recent months are many people clogging up
my news feeds with hundreds of posts in the time frame of under five
minutes. I suppose that would be fine if one was actively seeking a
paid position of Facebook spammer. But, I find it a bit too much.
Most
of the time, I let it slide though. I'm a fairly polite person, and
it isn't as though they are constantly posting pictures to be
malicious or annoying on purpose.
However,
I will also be the first one to make this confession...
THURSDAY
CONFESSION #17: I would die a
happy man if I NEVER, EVER saw the following Facebook memes ever
again!
ANNOYING
FACEBOOK MEME #1 – ANNOYING FACEBOOK GIRL
I'm
sure some of you have seen this lovely lady floating around Facebook
at some point. I've gotten to know her quite well. No, I don't know
what her name is, or what the original reason behind her...lovely
pose is. But I feel as though I know her because I see her pop up on
my news feed at least once a day.
Let's
just say that whoever named her the “annoying Facebook girl” was
dead on.
I
get that the Annoying Facebook Girl meme is meant to be ironic. Most
of the things she says pokes fun at some of the annoying behaviour
that we are graced with on Facebook each and every day. But, I don't
really see much charm in it, because it just seems so juvenile.
To
be honest, I think the Willy Wonka ones are done much better. Of
course, some of you may find those equally annoying as well.
ANNOYING
FACEBOOK MEME #2 – What colour is your bra, and other fun questions
that women answer and men are supposedly too clueless to discover the
truth for themselves.
I'll
admit to being confused as heck when one day in 2008, all of my
female Facebook friends were posting random colours as their status
updates. It didn't make any sense. But then a quick Google search
brought the truth. They were posting the colours of their bras. Why
you ask? They claimed that the reason was to raise awareness for
breast cancer. It actually got a lot of coverage on the 6 o'clock
news a few weeks later.
And,
of course, shortly after that, the bra colour status updates
disappeared because now we all knew their secret, which wasn't really
a secret.
There
have been many other variations of this “bra game”. The
following year, women were posting various locations all over the
household, which corresponded to places where they were leaving their
purses. Then there was the whole idea of posting pieces of fruit as
a status update, which corresponded to relationship statuses. And,
don't even get me started on the whole “I'm going to Azerbaijan for
75 months” deal...if you really wanted to let people know what your
birthday is, you'd have it posted on your profile.
I'll
let you think about that for a second.
I
guess the point I'm trying to make with this is that this Facebook
status game idea might have started off with a noble cause, but
future versions of it are not really my cup of tea. Anyone who is
skilled in Google can find out what the secret it behind the game (I
actually laughed out loud when I Google searched the fruit game, and
the first result had “Don't let anyone know the secret once you
discover it” in the description of the link). In fact, I'd
probably go one step further and say that these games are perfect for
getting people to admit to things (birthday, relationship status)
that they maybe want to keep private, so just be careful about that.
I
mean, what next? A status update asking men what colour underwear
they're wearing to raise awareness against silly Facebook status
games?
Black.
ANNOYING
FACEBOOK MEME #3 – This picture.
I
just want to state a little disclaimer before I go and tear this meme
apart. I am very, very sympathetic towards people who have lost a
loved one to cancer. I lost my grandfather to lung cancer in 2000,
so I know how it feels. I wouldn't wish cancer on anybody.
And
if you can just focus on the picture, it is both heartbreaking, yet
beautiful at the same time. The picture tells me that just because
someone has cancer, it doesn't mean that they stop living.
I
also don't have a problem with some of the text in the bottom. It
says to “repost this in honour of those fighting cancer”. If
that was the only text that existed, I would likely have this on my
wall right now.
The
thing that makes this picture turn from sweet to sour is the text
that appears before the last sentence. You know, the one that reads
“Most of u won't repost this because apparently your 'TOO COOL',
but really your selfish.”
My,
my, my, where do I begin with this?
I
suppose it would be too easy to point out the fact that the person
who wrote this fell asleep during the your/you're lesson in English
class. But, whoops, looks like I already did that, so we'll move on.
I
think the biggest issue I have is the tone in which it is written.
It's written very defensively, almost as if they have something to
prove. And, then they're calling us selfish because we don't repost
it.
Of
course I won't repost it. I don't appreciate getting guilt-tripped
in regards to what I should and shouldn't post on my Facebook wall at
any given time. And, if that makes me selfish, let me ask
this...what do you suppose the odds are that the person who created
this “lovely” sentiment have donated their time to cancer
organizations, or donated money to cancer research? I'd be mighty
interested in hearing the answer to that one.
But
I will repost THIS edited version. I think it works better.
ANNOYING
FACEBOOK MEME #4 – I hate the new Timeline on Facebook, so I'm
going to post millions of images about just how much I hate the new
Timeline on Facebook ON FACEBOOK!!!
Trust
me. We get it. You hate the new Timeline that has been renovating
Facebook walls since the beginning of 2012. And yes, the Mayans are
responsible for it because they want our potential last year on Earth
to be the most miserable ever.
My
personal feelings about the Facebook Timeline is that like every new
change that we go through, it has its pros and cons. I like the fact that the Timeline
allows you to go back through the years to reflect on (or erase) your
past. I like the fact that you can now like that you have
been born! And I found that if you click on the stars on the upper
right hand corner of each post on your Timeline, you can expand the
boxes to full size so it looks more like a wall. Granted, it's more
work for myself, but I learned to adapt to it.
I
completely understand that some have legitimate reasons to hate the
Timeline. The original layout is not the best (which is why I
recommend the star icon trick), and for those people who are heavily
in the Farmville, Cityville, Frontierville circuit,
the new layout is horrible for game playing. And, I also agree that
Facebook users should only have the OPTION to switch to Timeline or
not...Timeline isn't for everyone, and nobody should be forced to use
it.
I
don't mind it if people don't like the new look. I DO mind it when I
have to hear about it every five minutes on my news feed. And, when
I see pictures like this all over my news feed...
...well,
to be truthful, I find that more annoying than the Timeline layout.
I guess maybe there's just some things that take precedence in my
life than worrying about a Facebook layout...but maybe that's just
me. I'm cool with people who don't like it, but don't spam my
news feed or wall over how much you despise it.
Because when you look at it...doesn't complaining about how much you hate the Timeline by posting about it every day on YOUR Timeline defeat the purpose just a smidgen?
Because when you look at it...doesn't complaining about how much you hate the Timeline by posting about it every day on YOUR Timeline defeat the purpose just a smidgen?
I
guess the final point that I would like to make in regards to
Facebook memes is this. I know that I can't control what people
post, nor am I saying I want that control. And, the odd meme every
now and then is okay. But if that's all we rely on to get our
opinions across, then can we really say that our thoughts and
opinions are really ours?
Why
is it so hard for us to have our own thoughts and our own feelings on
various subjects? Why do we need a picture with someone else's
thoughts and opinions to showcase to the world how we feel when we
are all perfectly capable of having our own ideas?
Just
some food for thought today.
BONUS
QUESTION: Which Facebook trends make you peeved?
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