Today
may be the last day of May, but this retrospective is set to last at least one
more week. After all, I am a lot older
than twenty-seven years old.
As
much as I hate to admit it sometimes.
Anyway,
this is the story of my twenty-seventh year on this earth, and I have
to say that 27 could have gone a lot better for me.
Then
again, I suppose my 27th year went a lot better than Jimi Hendrix, Jim
Morrison, Janis Joplin, Kurt Cobain, and Amy Winehouse. All of them died at 27. So, right off the bat, I'm grateful that I
even made it past 27 in the first place.
But
let's just say that 27 was a year in which I came to a realization about
myself. And, it wasn't a very good one
at that.
Now,
I'll get to that story in a second. But
before we do that, I have a few things that I want to share with you that are
pop culture related.
I
do have a photo taken of me from my 27th year...but I think I'll share that
photo a little later on. You'll
understand why as we proceed.
For
now, let's see what was hot around my 27th birthday...
#1 SONG THE WEEK OF 5/18/2008
"Bleeding Love" - LEONA LEWIS
Now,
I can't remember if she won Britain's Got Talent, or the X-Factor. I know that she was a contestant on one of
those shows. The ultimate result was
this worldwide smash hit. It's a shame
that she never really had much success in North America, but she's still a star
in the UK from what I hear.
#1 AT THE BOX OFFICE THE WEEK OF 5/18/2008
"The Chronicles of Narnia: Prince
Caspian"
Although
I loved reading as a child, I never really got into The Chronicles of Narnia
series, which is probably why I never watched this movie. I heard it did very well though.
#1 TELEVISION SHOW OF THE 2008/2009 SEASON
"American Idol"
"American Idol"
Sigh...you
know what? I'm bored with talking about
this show. Let's just skip it for now.
Okay,
so 2008. What was happening in
2008? Well, not a whole lot. I mean, I was still working my full-time job
and I was enjoying it. I had friends
who I could hang out with and who liked me.
And as the holiday season approached, I had thought that things were
going well.
I
still remember the holiday celebration that we had at my workplace back
then. It was just after I celebrated my
fourth anniversary with my workplace (I started two weeks before Christmas in
2004), and it was at a time in which our workplace uniforms were dark blue
(they're now a lighter blue).
As
part of the festivities for the holiday season, we were allowed to dress in
Christmas colours, and for the occasion I wore a green polo shirt, green khakis,
and a red sweater vest that I had bought myself some time earlier. All I needed was red socks, and the entire
outfit would have rocked!
In
our employee lounge there were all sorts of treats for all of us
employees. If I remember correctly, I
was working a day shift that day, so we were treated to pancakes, sausages,
fresh fruit - after all, it was a holiday breakfast. And naturally, all of us employees - especially yours truly -
took advantage in a big way.
Well,
I think someone from management was going in and out of the lounge periodically
taking pictures of all of the employees and somehow my picture was
snapped. I didn't realize this until I
saw a collage of all of the photos that were posted on the wall outside the
lounge.
And
when I saw my photo, I felt so sick inside.
Have a look.
First
things first, contrary to what you might think, I do not randomly drink an
entire gallon of store-bought maple syrup.
It just happened to be placed on the table that I was sitting at.
Secondly,
I thought that my green polo and red vest would have looked fantastic, but when
you throw the blue vest over top of it, there was clearly too much going on,
and it just looked bad.
And
lastly...and more painfully...I realized just how much I let myself go.
I
was huge. I was enormous. And, here's a bit of a confession. I was probably at the 300 pound mark, if not
completely over it. And, it just made
me want to break down and cry.
The
sad thing is...it never made me feel that way before.
I
don't know if any of you could tell based on my childhood photos that I've
posted over the last month, but I was always a husky kind of kid. I needed a big and tall store before the
days of Destination XL. In first grade,
I was four feet, five inches tall. By
seventh, I was five foot seven. And by
my eighteenth birthday, I was already at 6'1".
The
height I could deal with. The weight
was always a problem.
You
see...I am what you call an emotional eater.
I ate to fill the void of things that I didn't have. When I was in high school and all the other
kids were going to dances, I was raiding the refrigerator at home and gorging
on whatever food there was that contained sugar, fat, or both. And well, by 2008, it had all caught up with
me.
It
got to the point where I didn't recognize the person who I was looking at in
that photo. It certainly wasn't the
best representation of who I knew I could be.
But,
who was I? At 27, I didn't know the
answer to that question. All I knew was
that when I was growing up, people were mean to me for being overweight - both
kids and adults. When they weren't
calling me "Fatty Matty", they were giving me unsolicited advice
about how to lose weight. One kid
actually lectured me by saying that I should stop eating junk food and maybe,
just maybe he would have something to do with me.
Clearly
he and I were never going to be friends.
Not with his holier-than-thou attitude.
Though,
admittedly, my attitude sucked as well.
I basically had the "I give up" attitude where I just binge
ate over and over. Food filled the
relationship void, the friendship void, and the general life suckage void. And all I had to show for it was a three
hundred pound body that I was convinced that nobody would love.
I
suppose it was sort of an insane way to show self-preservation. Self-preservation through
self-sabotage. At least by being heavy,
I ensured that people who could potentially hurt me would stay away.
But
it's not a great way to live life. And
I suppose that you could call this a two-part piece...because at age 28, I
decided that I would change all that.
But
it also made me come to a rather sad realization. One that I will be one hundred per cent honest about.
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