Okay,
I'm going to start this blog off by posting a link to a site that has GREATLY
helped me the last day or so.
The site is called SOCIAL FIXER, and it allows people to block certain posts on social media that they do NOT want to see. INCLUDING POLITICAL POSTS.
The site is called SOCIAL FIXER, and it allows people to block certain posts on social media that they do NOT want to see. INCLUDING POLITICAL POSTS.
You
know, I'm not even American, and I am already sick of American politics. Prior to my finding this beautiful site that
allows me to filter my newsfeed to eliminate most political posts (sadly, it
does not filter out memes), it was getting to the point where I had to wade
through 99% of Trump, Clinton, Trudeau, and Wynne postings just to get to the
good stuff.
It's
not as though I don't care about politics.
I actually have some strong opinions about them. I just don't share them on my own Facebook
timeline because I don't really want to advertise them for fear of getting
attacked or bullied by those who don't agree with them.
I
don't have an issue with disagreements.
They happen all the time. I do
have an issue with people attacking other people with insults, foul language,
and veiled threats. To me, that's not
showing that you're passionate about politics.
Instead, you're passionate about ruining someone else's day or making
people feel bad for not agreeing with you.
As Daffy Duck would say...that's despicable. And those attitudes are one reason why I sought out the political
blocker on my own Facebook page. I
don't have any interest in seeing people lose it against each other because of
a difference of opinion, or people labeling an entire group of people with foul
insults because they are protesting the current President of the United States,
or instigators who purposely poke the bear with a stick just to start a fight
online.
Perhaps
some of the most disgusting behaviour that I have seen over the last couple of
days involves one little boy...and it's this boy that has sparked today's PCA
Life Lesson.
As
if I really need a reason to post a life lesson about how wrong it is to bully
a child - especially when you're an adult that is doing it. And yet, that's exactly what I saw, and
that's the very reason why I turned off all politics from my Facebook page.
(DISCLAIMER: I'm happy to report that none of my contacts on my FB page were responsible for it, aside from posting public links to stories where some people in the general public DID say these things.)
(DISCLAIMER: I'm happy to report that none of my contacts on my FB page were responsible for it, aside from posting public links to stories where some people in the general public DID say these things.)
As
I was saying, bullying a child is not okay under any circumstances. And to prove my point, I present to you this
photo.
The
photo is of now President Donald Trump and his youngest son, Barron. I believe Barron is around the 10-11 year
old mark. I'm not quite sure. He's a handsome kid though. I can see why the Trump family would be
proud of him.
I
mean, granted, I still don't believe that America made the right choice in
electing Donald Trump president, and I could spend an hour telling people
exactly why I don't trust him...but I can do that without bringing his wife or
five children into the argument. They
are not responsible for the things that Donald Trump says or tweets, so they
should be kept off the table.
Which
is why I think it's deplorable that people are starting to use their
"keyboard courage" to attack Barron Trump for things that are
absolutely ridiculous.
Now,
when I say "attack", I tend not to think of the posts on Instagram
that "Modern Family" star Julie Bowen posted during the
inauguration. In those posts, she
capped pictures of Barron looking disinterested and captioning them with
comments about him wishing he had his Gameboy with him. To me, I can see the humour behind it (even
though several others did not), mainly because I don't believe she was trying
to be malicious about it...and because if I were Barron Trump and I was at the
inauguration, I'd probably want my Nintendo DS too! I mean, let's face it. At
10, I had the worst attention span when it came to important events where I had
to sit down a lot and listen to adults speak for several hours. I nearly fell asleep at my sister's wedding
when I was eight! So yeah, I'm going to
give Julie Bowen a pass on this one, though I think she'll probably think twice before posting anything about the Trumps on Instagram again.
Now,
the comments that Saturday Night Live writer Kate Rich made on the other
hand...yeah, I'm not even going to post what she wrote because it is so
obnoxious and cruel. And in EXTREMELY
poor taste! Let's just say that she
found a way to incorporate the words "Barron Trump" and "school
shooting" into one very bitter tweet.
And, yes, I see the irony in complaining about Kate Rich's tweet when
Barron's father is the king of poorly written tweets himself (Seriously, if somebody can find a way to disable his Twitter privileges, that would be the first step in lessening the divide between Americans). But the point is that an adult like Kate
Rich making comments like that towards a ten year old boy is absolutely
disgusting, and shame on her for even suggesting such a thing.
Not
long after posting that tweet, Rich was barraged by negative comments from
people who felt the same way that I did, and she deleted it three hours
later. But by that time, the damage was
already done. I hope that tweet was
worth it.
And don't even get me started on the claims that Rosie O'Donnell made about
Barron Trump supposedly having autism.
Firstly, what difference does it make if he does? Absolutely none whatsoever. Secondly, who made Rosie O'Donnell a medical
expert on diagnosing autism? She is not
a doctor. And thirdly, we all know that
O'Donnell and Trump have hated each other since the days when Rosie was a
panelist on "The View". I'm
thinking that her comments were less about Barron's well being and more about
her trying to attack Trump once more. I
don't think either side in the O'Donnell/Trump war behaved like adults during
the whole brouhaha, but O'Donnell really should have known better than to go
after his children the way that she has.
Queen of Nice, no more.
And
honestly...if you're an adult making fun of a child - whether they're in the
public eye or the kid down the street...it's absolutely shameful. And I say this because I know what it's like
to be a child and be made fun of by adults for things that are so
superficial. It hurts, it's not a good
feeling, and it makes it difficult for that child to trust any adult.
And
I would have that opinion no matter what.
Whether it is Barron Trump, Sasha and Malia Obama, Chelsea Clinton, Jenna
and Barbara Bush or anybody...no adult has the right to bully any child.
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